When a family pet dies, it may be your child’s first experience with death. The way you choose to explain this event can lay the foundation for your child’s view of death.

• If your children do not see you sad or upset, they may fear that their own sorrow is unnatural.
• Your child’s imagination of how your pet died may be far worse than reality. If you would like euthanasia or the cause of death explained by a professional, ask your veterinarian.
• Children take many statements at face value. If they are told, “Buster went to sleep forever,” they may fear sleep.
• Children often feel guilty for things they did not do. Explain that your pet’s death was not anyone’s fault and that your pet is no longer in pain.
• Encourage your child to talk about fun times and happy memories of your pet.