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What
Do We Tell The Children?
When a family
pet dies, it may be your child's first experience with death. Consequently,
the way you choose to explain this event can lay the foundation for your
child's conception of death. Try to keep in mind:
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If your
children do not see you sad or upset, they may fear that their own
sorrow is unnatural.
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Your
child's imagination of how your pet died may be far worse than reality.
If you would like euthanasia or the cause of death explained by a
professional to your child, ask your veterinarian.
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Children
take many statements at face value. If they are told, "Buster
went to sleep forever," they may lie awake all night fearing
sleep themselves.
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Children
often feel guilty for things they did not do. Explain that your pet's
death was not anyone's fault and that your pet is no longer in pain.
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When
children are ready for a new pet, they will let you know.
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